she says " You dont want to be married to me" he says " How do you know"

sometimes we think that we are not worthy enough of being in a relationship. we're not ready. we're not capable.

 the other person is amazing but so amazing that they could do without our junk, our baggage, our emotional problems ..we 're saving them by being away from them or not getting into something..

but the puzzle is that they seem ready for it.
they seem to know us and all our shit but still seem to love us. kinda like Derek's love for Meredith in Grey's Anatomy.  She was a mess but he loved her.  but does that love last?