people

its amazing how you can be so close to someone, talk to them, respect them  but then some one else tells them something about you and there is a misunderstanding and then you feel , you know that something is not right
they think about you differently
they might not treat you differently but you know somethings different in how they look at you, how they are  with you

you can do everything right, you can fulfill all expectations , you can be the nice girl, the good girl, but then somebody labels you and insults you and other people, people you trusted, they believe it????!!!!!!

we have relationships, we build up trust and then the little things come along, others come along and in a moment that relationship is shattered...
people chose to believe some one else over us...

what do we do then?
do we stay quiet or do we face confrontation?   it will never be the same...

is it that what we did changed everything? or peoples' perceptions changed everything?  and if i want to do something why should i not do it because someone else doesnt agree with it?!

technically i should be able to do whatever i want...and other people creating misconceptions about me shouldnt prevent me from doing what i want...!